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Narcissitic Personality Disorder: somatic

What is Somatic Narcissism?

Somatic narcissism is a type of narcissistic personality disorder characterized by an excessive focus on physical appearance, beauty, and sexual attractiveness. Individuals with somatic narcissism often use their physical appearance and sexual prowess to gain attention, admiration, and power over others.


One of the defining features of somatic narcissism is a preoccupation with one's own physical appearance. Individuals with this disorder may spend excessive amounts of time and money on grooming, fashion, and cosmetic procedures in order to maintain their appearance. They may also engage in sexual behaviors as a means of obtaining validation and attention.

Somatic narcissists may also exhibit a lack of empathy for others, using their physical appearance and sexual prowess to manipulate and exploit others for their own gain. They may view others as objects to be used for their own pleasure or gratification, rather than as individuals with their own needs and desires.

While somatic narcissism can be challenging to treat, some therapeutic approaches such as cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) or psychodynamic therapy may be helpful in addressing the underlying emotional and psychological factors that contribute to this disorder. It's important to note that individuals with somatic narcissism may also struggle with underlying mental health issues such as anxiety or depression, and a comprehensive treatment plan sholuld take these factors into account.
Setting boundaries with a somatic narcissist can be challenging, as they are often focused on their own physical appearance and sexual gratification at the expense of others. However, it's important to establish clear and firm boundaries to protect your own wellbeing and prevent the somatic narcissist from taking advantage of or exploiting you.

What kind of boundaries can I put in place?

•°Establish clear boundaries around physical touch and sexual behavior: Be clear about your own boundaries around physical touch and sexual behavior, and communicate them assertively to the somatic narcissist. If they attempt to cross these boundaries, disengage and reiterate your boundaries.

•°Don't engage in body-shaming or other negative comments about physical appearance: Somatic narcissists may use negative comments about their own or others' physical appearance to gain attention or validation. Don't engage in these conversations, and make it clear that you won't tolerate body-shaming or other negative comments.

•°Limit the amount of time you spend with the somatic narcissist: Decide how much time you are willing to spend with the somatic narcissist, and stick to it. Don't allow them to guilt-trip you into spending more time with them.

•°Don't allow them to use physical appearance or sexual behavior to manipulate or exploit you: Somatic narcissists may use their physical appearance or sexual behavior to manipulate or exploit others. Don't allow them to use these tactics to gain power over you or others.

•°Practice self-care: Take care of yourself emotionally, physically, and mentally. This may include setting aside time for hobbies or activities you enjoy, seeking support from friends or family members, or seeking professional help if needed.

In conclusion, setting boundaries with narcissistic individuals can be challenging, but it's important to establish clear and firm boundaries to protect your own wellbeing and prevent the narcissist from taking advantage of or exploiting you. Both overt and covert narcissists may exhibit a lack of empathy for others and a preoccupation with their own needs and desires, which can make it difficult for them to recognize and take responsibility for their negative behaviors. However, by communicating your expectations clearly, setting limits on your time and energy, and practicing self-care, you can establish healthy boundaries that allow you to maintain your own emotional and physical safety.


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